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How to Maintain a Great Relationship with My Loved One’s Caregiver

The idea of taking on a caregiver for your loved one can be intimidating. Hiring someone neither of you knows to come in and fill an instrumental role in your lives can cause a lot of uncertainty.

However, that doesn’t have to be the case! At Landis at Home, we’re here to help you and your loved one thrive at home, and that starts with you, your loved one, and their caregiver building and maintaining a great relationship from the beginning. 

Set Expectations From the Start 

It’s essential to know beforehand what responsibilities the caregiver will take care of and what expectations you have for them. Having this discussion early on gives you an opportunity to discuss their experience and hear what they expect as well. Setting these expectations and establishing this understanding at the beginning helps avoid issues down the road. 

Get to Know Each Other

One of the best ways to form a positive relationship with your loved one’s caregiver is by getting to know them as a person rather than an employee. More often than not, caregivers become a companion or confidant for those they take care of. Because of this, they’re bound to learn about you and your family on a more personal level.

Connecting with them personally shows that you see them as more than someone helping out or working for your family. It’s one thing to ask how they are doing, but learning about them, their interests, their family, and so on shows you truly care. This helps build the foundation for a strong, steady relationship with them. 

While getting to know your caregiver, be mindful that some caregivers may be more comfortable sharing personal things about themselves than others. Respecting their boundaries in what they are sharing is just as important in building this relationship.

Communicate Openly

Communication is critical for caregivers and the families they assist. Setting clear communication expectations from the start helps avoid any incorrect assumptions down the line. Ensuring that you have clear communication goes hand in hand with making sure your loved one is receiving the proper care they deserve.

It’s important to not only talk about the good and bad things with one another, but to seek their advice or suggestions as well. This strengthens your relationship with the caregiver and shows that you trust them and their input when it comes to your loved one.

Address Problems Together

At the end of the day, you and your loved one’s caregiver share a common goal. While they are familiar with elder and at-home care, you are the one who knows best when it comes to your family.

If any problems or situations arise, work together and remember this is a team effort. They can provide tips and tricks, while you provide specifics regarding what your family member likes or dislikes. Both of your areas of knowledge regarding the situation are critical, and combining your expertise helps everyone in the end.

If there are issues that can’t be resolved, the Landis at Home office is available to help. Whether this involves problem solving, updating the plan for care, or replacing a caregiver who may not be a good fit, our door is open for either side to reach out.

Respect Boundaries

In-home caregivers often form close relationships with not only the people they are responsible for taking care of, but their loved ones as well. It’s natural to become close, especially in such a personal environment.

However, at the end of the day, it is a working relationship and both sides need to set and follow professional boundaries. For instance, family members shouldn’t expect caregivers to complete tasks during their time off, and caregivers shouldn’t get involved in family dynamics such as taking sides in an argument regarding your loved one’s care.

Again, it’s perfectly fine to have a friendly relationship, but make sure not to blur the lines of professionalism. Caregivers should not be expected to share their phone numbers or contact information with family members.

Share Stories 

At the end of the day, caregivers are walking into an environment unfamiliar to them. While their role entails making your loved one feel comfortable, sharing stories can help them get to know you and your loved one on a personal level. Providing details about your loved one’s history, preferences, etc., can also help their caregiver better understand the level of care and support they need to provide as well. 

If you’re looking for some of the best home care services for your loved ones in Lancaster, PA, look no further than Landis at Home. We are committed to supporting your loved one’s desire to live at home. 

Contact us today to see how we can best serve you and your family!